Family Health Insurance Costs Over $25,000? 7 Mistakes You're Making (And How to Fix Them)

Family health insurance premiums have reached a staggering average of $26,993 in 2025, with workers contributing approximately $6,850 annually toward their coverage. If your family's health insurance costs feel overwhelming, you're not alone: but you might be making costly mistakes that are driving your expenses even higher.
At Borde & Associates, we've helped countless families navigate the complex world of health insurance for over a decade. Through our experience, we've identified seven critical mistakes that families consistently make, often costing them thousands of dollars each year. The good news? Every single one of these mistakes is completely fixable.
Mistake #1: Not Reviewing Your Plan Options Annually
Your health insurance needs change as your family grows and evolves, yet many families stick with the same plan year after year without comparing alternatives. This autopilot approach can cost you significantly.
The Fix:
- Review all available plans during open enrollment, even if you're satisfied with your current coverage
- Compare total costs, including premiums, deductibles, and out-of-pocket maximums
- Assess your family's actual healthcare usage from the previous year
- Consider life changes like new medications, planned procedures, or family additions
During your annual review, calculate the true cost of each plan option by adding monthly premiums to potential out-of-pocket expenses based on your family's typical healthcare usage. This comprehensive approach often reveals significant savings opportunities.

Mistake #2: Choosing the Wrong Deductible Strategy
High-deductible health plans (HDHPs) have become increasingly popular, with nearly 29% of workers enrolled in plans that qualify for Health Savings Accounts. However, many families choose their deductible level based on monthly premium costs alone, ignoring their actual healthcare usage patterns.
The Fix:
- Analyze your family's healthcare spending patterns from the past two years
- Calculate break-even points between high and low deductible options
- Consider your emergency fund capacity when choosing higher deductibles
- Factor in HSA tax advantages if you're considering an HDHP
If your family typically has minimal healthcare expenses, a high-deductible plan paired with an HSA can provide substantial tax savings. However, if you have ongoing medical needs or young children with frequent doctor visits, a lower deductible plan might offer better value despite higher premiums.
Mistake #3: Not Maximizing Employer Contributions and Benefits
Many employees fail to take full advantage of their employer's health insurance contributions and supplemental benefits, leaving money on the table.
The Fix:
- Understand your employer's contribution structure and ensure you're maximizing it
- Explore dependent coverage options carefully, as adding family members isn't always the most cost-effective choice
- Investigate supplemental benefits like wellness programs, telemedicine services, and preventive care incentives
- Consider spousal coverage alternatives if both partners have employer insurance options
Some employers offer cash incentives for wellness program participation or provide additional contributions to HSAs. These benefits can reduce your overall healthcare costs significantly when properly utilized.

Mistake #4: Ignoring Health Savings Account (HSA) Opportunities
HSAs represent one of the most powerful tax-advantaged savings tools available, yet they're dramatically underutilized. For 2025, contribution limits are $4,300 for individual coverage and $8,550 for family coverage, with an additional $1,000 catch-up contribution for those 55 and older.
The Fix:
- Maximize your HSA contributions if you're enrolled in an HDHP
- Use HSAs strategically by paying current medical expenses out-of-pocket when possible and letting your HSA grow
- Understand the triple tax advantage: deductible contributions, tax-free growth, and tax-free qualified withdrawals
- Plan for retirement healthcare costs by treating your HSA as a long-term investment vehicle
HSAs can be particularly valuable for families planning for future healthcare needs, as they can be used for Medicare premiums and long-term care expenses in retirement.
Mistake #5: Not Understanding Network Restrictions and Provider Costs
Network restrictions can dramatically impact your out-of-pocket costs, yet many families don't thoroughly understand their plan's provider network or the cost implications of going out-of-network.
The Fix:
- Verify that your preferred doctors and hospitals are in-network before enrolling
- Understand different network tiers and their associated costs
- Research prescription drug coverage and preferred pharmacy networks
- Know your emergency care rights and out-of-network protections

When selecting a plan, create a list of your family's current healthcare providers and verify their network status. Also, research the plan's prescription drug formulary to ensure your medications are covered at reasonable costs.
Mistake #6: Paying for Unnecessary or Duplicate Coverage
Families often carry redundant coverage or pay for benefits they don't need, particularly when both spouses have access to employer insurance or when they're over-insured for their actual needs.
The Fix:
- Analyze the true cost of family coverage versus individual plans for each spouse
- Evaluate dependent coverage needs carefully, especially for adult children
- Review supplemental insurance policies for potential overlaps
- Consider your actual coverage needs versus your perceived needs
Sometimes it's more cost-effective for spouses to maintain separate individual coverage rather than adding one spouse to the other's family plan. Similarly, some families maintain expensive coverage for services they rarely use.
Mistake #7: Not Actively Managing Prescription Drug Costs
Prescription drug prices are a major driver of healthcare cost increases, with over 36% of large employers citing them as contributing "a great deal" to premium increases. Many families don't actively manage these costs or explore available options for reducing them.
The Fix:
- Review your plan's prescription drug formulary annually
- Explore generic alternatives when appropriate
- Investigate prescription assistance programs offered by pharmaceutical companies
- Consider mail-order pharmacies for maintenance medications
- Understand step therapy requirements and prior authorization processes
Work with your healthcare providers to identify cost-effective medication alternatives when possible, and always verify that new prescriptions are covered before filling them.
Taking Action: Your Next Steps
These seven mistakes cost families thousands of dollars annually, but the solutions are within your reach. The key is taking a proactive, informed approach to your health insurance decisions rather than accepting the status quo.
Start by:
- Scheduling your annual insurance review well before open enrollment
- Gathering your family's healthcare usage data from the past year
- Calculating the true costs of your current plan versus alternatives
- Exploring HSA opportunities if you're eligible
At Borde & Associates, we understand that navigating health insurance options can feel overwhelming. Our experienced team has been helping families optimize their health insurance strategies for over a decade, and we're here to guide you through these important decisions.
Learn more about our health insurance services and discover how we can help your family reduce healthcare costs while maintaining excellent coverage.
Your family's health and financial security are too important to leave to chance. By avoiding these common mistakes and implementing these proven strategies, you can take control of your healthcare costs and ensure your family receives the coverage they need at a price you can afford.
Don't wait until the next open enrollment period to start making these changes. The sooner you address these common mistakes, the more you can save. Contact us today to schedule your personalized health insurance review and start saving immediately.
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